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You know your child best. You can support them now and in the future by showing them ways to build good mental health.
Good mental health is an important part of total health. Mental health includes our emotional, psychological and social well-being, says the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. Our mental health affects how we think and feel. It determines how we act. It also influences how we handle stress and make choices. Mental health is vital at each stage of life, from childhood and teen years through adulthood.
The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention says mentally healthy children have a positive quality of life and can function well at home, in school and in their communities. They reach developmental and emotional milestones and learn healthy social skills and how to cope when there are problems.
Many children sometimes have fears and worries and may show disruptive behaviors. That doesn’t mean there is a mental health problem that needs to be addressed. But if the signs of a problem are serious and persistent and interfere with school or other activities, share your concerns with your child’s doctor.
Anxiety and depression are common issues for children. They may show up as fear, worry or sadness. Some children may be angry or grouchy.
These issues can also rob children of good sleep and bring on headaches or stomach aches. Often children won’t share their worries, so some signs are easy to miss.
Mental Health America offers a list of some of the changes in behavior to look for:
Let children know it’s just as important to take care of their mental health as it is to take care of physical health. Encourage them to share their feelings. Make sure they know it’s OK to reach out if they’re sad or worried.
Learning to identify and manage self-defeating thoughts can be one way to cope. It’s also helpful to find new ways to build social relationships. That can help with anxiety, depression and loneliness. Committing to help others is another way to fight loneliness.
Learning ways to process and release emotions is a key skill for children and adults. These are habits that will help the whole family’s mental and emotional resilience:
If self-care steps don’t make a difference, talk with your child’s doctor. They may be able to help or suggest a qualified therapist, counselor or psychologist.
What they’re eating, or not eating, may be affecting your family’s mental health. Research shows that nutrition can play a vital role in regulating our mental and emotional health. Learn more.
Originally published in 7/1/2022; Revised 2023
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my son is have periods of depression he needs to see a counselor how can i set up an appointment we have not had ant luck without a referral
Understanding your child's mental health is vital. Supporting their emotional, psychological, and social well-being can shape their future. Anxiety and depression are common among children, often manifesting as fear, sadness, or anger. Look for signs like changes in behavior or sleep disruptions. Encourage open communication and teach coping strategies. Consider resources like "books on healing childhood trauma" to strengthen resilience and foster emotional growth. If needed, consult a doctor or therapist for expert guidance.